This reaction is based largely on a reading of emotional e-mails exchanged between passionate lovers Mark and Maria, which the State obtained last December and published after the governor's apology-laden news conference Wednesday. (No one has explained to my satisfaction why the newspaper waited so long to go public with the e-mails.) The e-mails are passionate, romantic, somewhat explicit and so filled with longing that they would fit in a Nicholas Sparks novel. They are almost painful to read. If you're looking for theme music to accompany them, I don't know whether it should be "Lara's Theme" from "Doctor Zhivago" or "Teenager in Love" by Dion and the Belmonts.
While many commenters at The State online defended Sanford and urged him to follow his one True Love ("life is too short" was the rationale), another commenter had the more mature perspective. "Love is not an emotion" this person wrote. "It's something you DO every day, day in and day out, whether you feel like it or not. When you stop (in a marriage) is when things go awry." (If you're interested, the commenter is Solow, who posted 6/25 at 1:15 p.m.)
It's easy to make comparisons to the long list of other politicians who have been felled by their lusts in recent years. Sen. John Ensign apologized for his affair just last week. N.Y. Gov. Eliot Spitzer decapitated his political ambitions by frequenting prostitutes. John Edwards admitted to an affair with his campaign's videographer. Long ago when I worked in Washington, Rep. Wilbur Mills lost his powerful post by falling for an "Argentine Firecracker."
There seems to be some connection between the adulations and egotism of political life and the need or desire for sexual adventure. Presidents FDR, JFK, LBJ and Bill Clinton all had documented affairs, but only Clinton's was publicly known during their lifetimes. And you don't have to be American. Just look at the mess Italy's Silvio Berlusconi finds himself in. Recent escapades, including Sanford's, have been compounded by a stench of hypocrisy as the adulterous politicians have been defenders of traditional morality, marriage and fidelity. Sanford and Ensign were known as family values types. Spitzer, as attorney general, prosecuted public figures he deemed immoral. Edwards touted himself as the perfect loving husband and father.
Sanford gets some credit for being genuinely contrite and remorseful. He stood and answered questions, he went into details. He rambled on about the meaning of life, and he apologized to his wife, his children, his staff, legislators and everyone else he could think of. And he humbly admitted that what he had done was "wrong, period." That's a rare admission for any politician. I'll give him credit for that.
But if Sanford's political ambitions are not completely snuffed out, and he runs for another office, I suggest his theme song be "Why Must I Be a Teenager in Love?"
3 comments:
Unless we have a special set of standards, he needs to resign. ASAP.
The problem is women use sex and the physical side of relationships and the lack thereof to control the relationship. Especially when things do not go according to their own desires and plans. Sure some male figures use the physical to control but we all know males need physical attention, evidently more so.
poor sanford got caught up in this egotistical situation and his at home women let him down. He should resign asap and get those physical desires taken care of.
You can say what you want but the female can prevent this stuff from happening by taking care of their husbands or companions physical needs. very Simple.
a said:
"Unless we have a special set of standards, he needs to resign. ASAP."
?typical liberal. laugh laugh laugh........ way out loud
Resign just like ole billy boy the President of the USA did?
I guess 'bj's' do not count, huh?
typical liberal
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